做磨心
zou6 mo4 sam1zou6 mo6 sam1zuò mò xīn
English
- to be the middleman; to be someone suffering because of the contradictory interests of two parties; to be someone who is loathed by both sides
- to find oneself in the unenviable position of trying to mediate between conflicting groups of people
粵語 — Cantonese
- 比喻處於為難嘅境況,難以處理各方唔和諧嘅關係
Examples
朋友呢排返工都做緊磨心,好難抽身。
My friend is stuck in the middle of conflicts at work, and it's hard to get out of the mess.
佢喺班入面人緣好,但係亦因為咁,每當同學之間有矛盾,佢往往就夾咗喺中間做磨心。
He/She has good relationship with everyone in the class. However, this is also the reason why he/she gets stuck in the middle of conflicts between classmates.
Sources: cc-canto, rime-cantonese, words.hk