禮尚往來
simp礼尚往来lai5 soeng6 wong5 loi4li3shang4wang3lai2lǐ shàng wǎng lái
English
- lit. proper behavior is based on reciprocity (idiom)
- (saying) 1. Reciprocate; 2. Treated others with kindness as how they will treat you back;
- fig. to return politeness for politeness
- Be kind to others that begets kindness in return
- do unto others as they do to you; reciprocate how others treat you
粵語 — Cantonese
- 人地用咩態度對你,你就應該用咩態度對返人
Examples
佢請我食飯,我都要禮尚往來,請返佢一次。
He treated me to dinner, so I should reciprocate by inviting him out.
朋友之間要禮尚往來,唔好成日淨係攞其他人嘅好處。
Friends should reciprocate each other's kindness, don't just take advantage of others all the time.
Sources: cc-canto, cc-cedict, rime-cantonese, words.hk